Mat. 12:36
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. KJV
The idle words we need to be concerned with are our carnal words, words that come from our carnal nature, words that we allow knowingly or carelessly.
Rom. 8:6
For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace. KJV
Solomon warns in the book of Proverbs that our words have the power of life and death.
Prov. 13:3
He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life: but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction. KJV
Prov. 18:21Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof. KJV
Our fathers taught us that our word is our bond, but God takes this even further. He has placed His word above all else, even above His own name.
Ps. 138:2
I will worship toward thy holy temple, and praise thy name for thy lovingkindness and for thy truth: for thou hast magnified thy word above all thy name. KJV
Giving Our Word
This study focuses on the act of ‘giving of our word’. While entering some studies into my computer, I became increasingly concerned about the topic of vows and oaths. As I read the Proverbs and Ecclesiastes, I started to understand this, and as a result, I made a deliberate effort to avoid any kind of vow or oath. As I studied the Bible, I encountered numerous examples of individuals swearing oaths and making vows. It became clear to me that these commitments were not elaborate religious ceremonies but rather simple acts of individuals giving their word.
Here are some examples of vows and oath
Gen. 28:20-22
And Jacob vowed a vow, saying, If God will be with me, and will keep me in this way that I go, and will give me bread to eat, and raiment to put on, 21So that I come again to my father's house in peace; then shall the LORD be my God: 22And this stone, which I have set for a pillar, shall be God's house: and of all that thou shalt give me I will surely give the tenth unto thee. KJV
1 Sam. 1:11
And she vowed a vow, and said, O LORD of hosts, if thou wilt indeed look on the affliction of thine handmaid, and remember me, and not forget thine handmaid, but wilt give unto thine handmaid a man child, then I will give him unto the LORD all the days of his life, and there shall no razor come upon his head. KJV
Mark 6:23-27
And he sware unto her, Whatsoever thou shalt ask of me, I will give it thee, unto the half of my kingdom. 24And she went forth, and said unto her mother, What shall I ask? And she said, The head of John the Baptist. 25And she came in straightway with haste unto the king, and asked, saying, I will that thou give me by and by in a charger the head of John the Baptist. 26And the king was exceeding sorry; yet for his oath's sake, and for their sakes which sat with him, he would not reject her. 27And immediately the king sent an executioner, and commanded his head to be brought: and he went and beheaded him in the prison, KJV
It became clear that the individual making the vow were just saying that they will do something (giving their word). In the 50+ years that I’ve been a Christian, I can’t recall receiving any instructions on vows or what they actually were. I have read James 5:12 numerous times, and the passage “above all things, my brethren, swear not” has left me at a loss. I had thought there were many things far worse than giving God my word.
Jam. 5:12
But above all things, my brethren, swear not, neither by heaven, neither by the earth, neither by any other oath: but let your yea be yea; and your nay, nay; lest ye fall into condemnation. KJV
I've known Christians who find themselves in dire straits, and I’ve heard of pastors who have fallen from the ministry. I believe that our idle words are not only going to cause us trouble when we get before the judgment seat of Christ, but we are experiencing complications now in this life.
In the book of Ecclesiastes, Solomon warns us about the consequences awaiting those who enter into a vow and fail to fulfill it. In Ecclesiastes 5:4-6, we see the significance that God places on our words.
Eccl. 5:4-6
When thou vowest a vow unto God, defer not to pay it; for he hath no pleasure in fools: pay that which thou hast vowed. 5Better is it that thou shouldest not vow, than that thou shouldest vow and not pay. 6Suffer not thy mouth to cause thy flesh to sin; neither say thou before the angel, that it was an error: wherefore should God be angry at thy voice, and destroy the work of thine hands? KJV
Solomon also states that one can do evil with words
Eccl. 5:1-2
Keep thy foot when thou goest to the house of God, and be more ready to hear, than to give the sacrifice of fools: for they consider not that they do evil. 2Be not rash with thy mouth, and let not thine heart be hasty to utter any thing before God: for God is in heaven, and thou upon earth: therefore let thy words be few. KJV
When you make a promise or pledge to God, or try to negotiate a deal for something in return—no matter the circumstances—you are held responsible to keep your word. The following verse from the book of Numbers illustrates God's position on vows and oaths. This scripture is quite serious; God firmly declares that you are binding your the soul with a bond and that you must not break your word.
Num. 30:2
If a man vow a vow unto the LORD, or swear an oath to bind his soul with a bond; he shall not break his word, he shall do according to all that proceedeth out of his mouth. KJV
Our perspective on vows
If a Christian were to give their word to God, it is essential that they follow through on that commitment. In giving their word, they are no longer free; they have create a law for themselves, (Num. 30:2 describes this as binding one’s soul). This is why the Apostle James warned, “above all things, my brethren, swear not”. It is God's exclusive right, and ability to swear oaths, vows, and make promises—He does not fail. We, however, often do.
What is the New Testament Christian’s stance on vows? It is important to note that this issue is not about righteousness.
Rom. 10:4
For Christ is the end of the law for righteousness to every one that believeth. KJV
It is not about our salvation.
Eph. 2:8
For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: KJV
But how should we interpret Romans 8:1, which states that there is now no condemnation for Christians?
Rom. 8:1
There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit. KJV!
If we, as Christians, are no longer subject to the curse of the law, how can we reconcile this with the consequences warned about in James 5:12? The only way that James 5:12 and Romans 8:1 are both true is to recognize that Vows and Oaths are coming from our flesh.
God Chastens
God is continually teaching, correcting and if necessary, chastening us. Therefore the condemnation that James describes in his epistle should not be taken lightly or ignored.
Heb. 12:6-8
For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth. 7If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not? 8But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons. KJV
1 Cor. 11:32
But when we are judged, we are chastened of the Lord, that we should not be condemned with the world. KJV
Rev. 3:19
As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and repent. KJV
It seems that some people think there are different levels when it comes to making promises to God. They may believe that an oath is more serious than a vow, or that a vow carries more weight than a simple pledge. This viewpoint suggests that someone could give their word to God without truly meaning it, and they have no need for worry or concern. However, Jesus addresses this when He states that we will give an account for “every idle word”.
Mat. 12:36
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. KJV
What of Christian pledges
The topic of pledges can be confusing, primarily because the pressure to make a pledge comes from the church itself. Moreover, the term "pledge" obscures the reality of what we are truly doing, giving our word. When a church organizes a pledge drive, it is typically understood, in advance, that a certain percentage of individuals who commit to the pledge will fall short of fulfilling their word.
Eccl. 5:1-2
Keep thy foot when thou goest to the house of God, and be more ready to hear, than to give the sacrifice of fools: for they consider not that they do evil. 2Be not rash with thy mouth, and let not thine heart be hasty to utter any thing before God: for God is in heaven, and thou upon earth: therefore let thy words be few. KJV
Hold onto that word “EVIL”, we will be revisiting it in the Sermon on the mount shortly.
Over the years I have seen many occasions where Christians were obligated to make a pledge to help meet a specific need in their church. In these instance, there is no warning given regarding the potential consequences of giving their word. While the need may indeed be legitimate and deserves support, the correct way to meet the need would be to purpose in your heart to give as you are able. So contributing to the need is commendable, but the act of pledging to do so is not. This issue becomes even more significant considering that Jesus on the Sermon on the Mount, tells us to”swear not at all”.
Sermon on the mount
Jesus’s words on vows – for Christians
Mat. 5:33-37
Again, ye have heard that it hath been said by them of old time, Thou shalt not forswear thyself, but shalt perform unto the Lord thine oaths: 34But I say unto you, Swear not at all; neither by heaven; for it is God's throne: 35Nor by the earth; for it is his footstool: neither by Jerusalem; for it is the city of the great King. 36Neither shalt thou swear by thy head, because thou canst not make one hair white or black. 37But let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil. KJV
That word "EVIL" has come up again. This time it’s Jesus using it. The words of Jesus clearly establish that in our Christian walk, we are not to make oaths, vows or swear.
The following portion of scripture illustrates that God does not interfere with a person's vow. When we, in our pride, remove ourselves from under the protection of the LORD, we ultimately bear sole responsibility for the outcomes of our choices. In situations like this, the devil couldn't be more pleased.
Example of a vow gone bad
Judg. 11:30-31
And Jephthah vowed a vow unto the LORD, and said, If thou shalt without fail deliver the children of Ammon into mine hands, 31Then it shall be, that whatsoever cometh forth of the doors of my house to meet me, when I return in peace from the children of Ammon, shall surely be the LORD's, and I will offer it up for a burnt offering. KJV
God did his part
Judg. 11:32-33
So Jephthah passed over unto the children of Ammon to fight against them; and the LORD delivered them into his hands. 33And he smote them from Aroer, even till thou come to Minnith, even twenty cities, and unto the plain of the vineyards, with a very great slaughter. Thus the children of Ammon were subdued before the children of Israel. KJV
You must pay your vows
Judg. 11:34-40
And Jephthah came to Mizpeh unto his house, and, behold, his daughter came out to meet him with timbrels and with dances: and she was his only child; beside her he had neither son nor daughter. 35And it came to pass, when he saw her, that he rent his clothes, and said, Alas, my daughter! thou hast brought me very low, and thou art one of them that trouble me: for I have opened my mouth unto the LORD, and I cannot go back. 36And she said unto him, My father, if thou hast opened thy mouth unto the LORD, do to me according to that which hath proceeded out of thy mouth; forasmuch as the LORD hath taken vengeance for thee of thine enemies, even of the children of Ammon. 37And she said unto her father, Let this thing be done for me: let me alone two months, that I may go up and down upon the mountains, and bewail my virginity, I and my fellows. 38And he said, Go. And he sent her away for two months: and she went with her companions, and bewailed her virginity upon the mountains. 39And it came to pass at the end of two months, that she returned unto her father, who did with her according to his vow which he had vowed: and she knew no man. And it was a custom in Israel, 40That the daughters of Israel went yearly to lament the daughter of Jephthah the Gileadite four days in a year. KJV
I have seen Christians with unresolved pledges living in poverty. Everything they touch seems to fall apart. While they may have food and shelter, they often have very little else. This is not the kind of Christianity described in the Bible. Jesus came to offer life in abundance.
John 10:10
The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly. KJV
When you "give God your word," the consequences of an unfulfilled promise can be severe. At the very least, it may lead to poverty.
THIS IS A STUMBLING BLOCK
Rom. 14:13
Let us not therefore judge one another any more: but judge this rather, that no man put a stumblingblock or an occasion to fall in his brother's way. KJV
Luke 17:1-2
Then said he unto the disciples, It is impossible but that offences will come: but woe unto him, through whom they come!2It were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and he cast into the sea, than that he should offend one of these little ones. KJV
Woe to those by whom it comes. A lot of pastors have fallen from the ministry.
A Recap
Eccl. 5:1
Keep thy foot when thou goest to the house of God, and be more ready to hear, than to give the sacrifice of fools: for they consider not that they do evil. KJV
Mat. 5:33-37
Again, ye have heard that it hath been said by them of old time, Thou shalt not forswear thyself, but shalt perform unto the Lord thine oaths: 34But I say unto you, Swear not at all; neither by heaven; for it is God's throne: 35Nor by the earth; for it is his footstool: neither by Jerusalem; for it is the city of the great King. 36Neither shalt thou swear by thy head, because thou canst not make one hair white or black. 37But let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil. KJV
Eccl. 5:4-6
When thou vowest a vow unto God, defer not to pay it; for he hath no pleasure in fools: pay that which thou hast vowed. 5Better is it that thou shouldest not vow, than that thou shouldest vow and not pay. 6Suffer not thy mouth to cause thy flesh to sin; neither say thou before the angel, that it was an error: wherefore should God be angry at thy voice, and destroy the work of thine hands? KJV
Jam. 5:12
But above all things, my brethren, swear not, neither by heaven, neither by the earth, neither by any other oath: but let your yea be yea; and your nay, nay; lest ye fall into condemnation. KJV
We must get this message into our hearts, and not be hearers only. It is essential that we guard our words.
Consider this
Jesus has commanded us not to make vows. How is it then that we have wedding vows? If making a vow limits or excludes God's assistance in the thing that we vow, how can we expect our marriages to endure? The marriage union is spiritual not carnal. A more reasonable approach would be a wedding prayer. Instead of declaring to God what we will do to keep the marriage, why not ask for The LORD too keep the love and unity in the marriage. Ask for The LORD too fight against all that would attack the marriage. Ask for The LORD too make us able parents to raise up godly kids for him. Ask for The LORD to be the third person in the marriage. This approach lays a strong foundation.
There is forgiveness is Christ
For those tripped up by this stumblingblock, don’t try and justify yourself before the LORD. Instead, humble yourself in the sight of the LORD. Christ provides forgiveness for all our transgressions. You need to get this under the blood. Even if the chastening of the LORD comes. Remember this Above all things God loves you.
Heb. 12:5-11
And ye have forgotten the exhortation which speaketh unto you as unto children, My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou art rebuked of him: 6For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth. 7If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not? 8But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons. 9Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live? 10For they verily for a few days chastened us after their own pleasure; but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness. 11Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby. KJV
Is. 57:16
For I will not contend for ever, neither will I be always wroth: for the spirit should fail before me, and the souls which I have made. KJV
Our prayer should be
Father keep watch over our words, write in our hearts and mind to avoid this stumblingblock.
Jude 1:3
Beloved, when I gave all diligence to write unto you of the common salvation, it was needful for me to write unto you, and exhort you that ye should earnestly contend for the faith which was once delivered unto the saints. KJV
Why the KJV?
There are some ~5000 early manuscripts of the Bible, by and large they form a cohesive foundation. The Authorized Version of the King James Bible is in harmony with these. I therefore confidently use the KJV in my life, and in this study. The newer versions of the Bible lack that harmony (I sense another study coming).